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Let’s Talk About Business Valuation During Divorce
If you or your spouse owns a business, divorce can bring an important question to the table: What is the business actually worth? A business is often more than a source of income—it may represent years of hard work, growth, and investment. During divorce, determining its value can be an important part of reaching a fair and informed settlement. What Does a Business Valuation Look At? A professional business valuation may consider factors such as: Business assets and liabiliti

LaShaun Shelby, MBA, CDFA®, CFP®
Aug 191 min read


Military Divorce: Understanding the Road Ahead
Military divorce can be more complex than a traditional divorce because it often involves unique benefits, retirement plans, healthcare, and military-specific rules. Whether you're an active-duty service member, a veteran, or a military spouse, understanding your rights and options is an important first step toward making informed decisions. Questions about military retirement, survivor benefits, healthcare eligibility, and relocation can quickly become overwhelming. Taking t

LaShaun Shelby, MBA, CDFA®, CFP®
Jul 211 min read


Divorce Is Not the End—It's the Beginning of Something New
Divorce is one of life's biggest transitions, and it's natural to feel uncertain about what comes next. While the ending of a marriage can bring grief and change, it can also open the door to new opportunities, personal growth, and a future you may not have imagined. A new beginning doesn't happen all at once. It starts with small steps—creating new routines, setting new goals, rebuilding confidence, and giving yourself permission to move forward at your own pace. Every posit

LaShaun Shelby, MBA, CDFA®, CFP®
Jul 211 min read


What is a "Quiet Divorce"?
A quiet divorce isn't a legal divorce. Instead, it describes a marriage where the emotional connection has faded, but the couple remains together. They may live in the same home, share responsibilities, and continue daily routines, yet feel more like roommates than partners. For many couples, a quiet divorce develops gradually. Communication becomes limited, affection disappears, and unresolved issues remain unaddressed. While some couples choose to rebuild their relationship

LaShaun Shelby, MBA, CDFA®, CFP®
Jul 21 min read


Why Pension Valuation Matters During Divorce
When going through a divorce, it's easy to focus on the family home or other visible assets. However, a pension may be one of the most valuable assets accumulated during the marriage. A pension valuation helps determine the value of retirement benefits and how they may be divided as part of a divorce settlement. Understanding what a pension is worth allows you to make informed decisions and helps ensure all marital assets are considered fairly. Every divorce is unique, and re

LaShaun Shelby, MBA, CDFA®, CFP®
Jun 291 min read


Gray Divorce: Starting Over After 50
Written by LaShaun Shelby, MBA, CDFA®, CFP® Divorce after age 50—often called gray divorce—is becoming increasingly common. While ending a long-term marriage brings emotional challenges, it also creates unique considerations that deserve careful planning. Unlike younger couples, those experiencing gray divorce are often closer to retirement or already retired. This means there is less time to recover from costly mistakes. Decisions involving retirement accounts, pensions, Soc

LaShaun Shelby, MBA, CDFA®, CFP®
Jun 21 min read


The Divorce Wake-Up Call No One Talks About
Written by LaShaun Shelby, MBA, CDFA®, CFP® Divorce isn't just an emotional transition—it's a financial one, too. While most people focus on the legal aspects of divorce, the financial decisions you make during this time can impact your future for years to come. Decisions about the family home, retirement accounts, investments, debt, and support agreements all deserve careful consideration. Unfortunately, many people make the mistake of rushing through the financial details s

LaShaun Shelby, MBA, CDFA®, CFP®
Jun 21 min read
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